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She knows it's wrong. She's glad it's wrong.

If it takes a whole life for a man to understand a woman, it probably takes longer for a woman to understand herself, the smarter the worse...

But why would a girl with sharp intellect marry a wrong guy?

Q. For money?

A. Maybe not. (for some other women maybe)

Q. For her ex-boyfriend wanted to come back that stirred her emotions again?

A. A lie or a wound will stay and will repeat again. She is smart enough to know she won't take him back. It's over.

Q. For a fairytale prince that gives her a life of a princess?

A. A smart woman won't bother.

Q  For a hope?

A. Definitely not. She may be capable of creating hope for others and herself.

Q. For excitement?

A. To the contrary, it's the "Death of Excitement".

Q. For being hopeless and exhausted with life at some point? 

A. 50% correct.

Q. For being smart and being a woman at the same time is a crime?

A. 80% right. Sentence these women to capital punishment.

Q. For hitting a wall or a ceiling somewhere?

A. 100% true.

Q. But still, WHY?

A. ....... And yet, WHY NOT ?

Here's how it happened. Career Woman and the Fairy Tale.

What are u talking about? Career woman? Fairy tale? The 2 extremes never blend. It's like putting together "a Monk" and "Great Sex".

When we were little girls, we dreamed of a prince on a white horse taking us to a castle, and live happily forever. But if life put you in a role of career woman, romance is simply out of the question. Does she want it? She tells herself she doesn't. Why think of something she has no luck for?

But one day, a Prince knelt before her with a ring. He was refined, charming, handsome, hopelessly romantic, and almost perfect. He offered her a fairytale wedding and a life of a fragile princess forever.

Suddenly she realized, she has been living to the expectations of the men's world. She has to be stronger than any man, smarter than any man, and she has to win over men by playing according to the men's logic and rules of the game.  (Because man can only understand their own logic and ideologies, they think it's good. But it's not always logical for a woman.)

She never cried. How strange?

She is afraid of showing anyone she can cry.  She has no right to tears.

She can't afford mistakes because she knows in a business world ruled by men, a man's mistakes will sometimes be forgiven, but not a woman's. When every man wants to tear this woman down, wants to see how she falls from the top, she is forced to perform even when she is tired.

But then, this prince appears, he offered her the RIGHT to weakness. She was just so exhausted and wanted a shoulder.     

Now, she is torn between a princess and a professional woman. A dreadful feeling arises.

Using a male's logic, she compiled a stupid SWOT analysis of whether she WILL or WILL NOT accept the offer:

But ALL her friends tell her to marry the prince....why?

HOWEVER, life is about funny twists.

One night, she had dinner with a few old classmates. While she could still recall how they hanged out as innocent girls, some are now having kids or about to give birth in a month or so. She looked at her girlfriends and their husbands. They gained 30 to 40 pounds, didn't care about how they look, and their kids screamed on the table.

"You gotta to wash yourself with ginger skin water after giving birth..." "Which hospital do you go to?" "This brand of diapers is softer...." "This is the baby snack my son loves, pumpkin flavor...." "He learned to say 'ma ma' 2 weeks ago..." "This brand of milk doesn’t have Omega-3...."  Motionless, she kept eating her food and felt like an alien herself.

She asked her friends a stupid question, "How's it like to get married? Anything changed?" They told her, "Well, it's all the same as before..."

Really? The "same"?  SHE WAS TERRIFIED !!!

She started to work on another list of what she wants now:

The idea of being a PRINCESS is too absurd for her now. It takes a professional suicide and the suicide of her carefree life...

She thinks… it'll soon be her birthday, “Why ruin a good day?”

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